Your weekly poem: Wild Geese

Your weekly poem: Wild Geese

🌿 A poem a day keeps the blues away… 

WILD GEESE—or when feeling stuck is part of the process 🌿

🌻 (…) Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.
Meanwhile the world goes on.
Meanwhile the sun and the clear pebbles of the rain
are moving across the landscapes,
over the prairies and the deep trees,
the mountains and the rivers.
Meanwhile the wild geese, high in the clean blue air,
are heading home again.
Whoever you are, no matter how lonely,
the world offers itself to your imagination,
calls to you like the wild geese, harsh and exciting —
over and over announcing your place
in the family of things. 🌻

—Mary Oliver

🌱 Tell me about despair, yours, and I will tell you mine.

If you’re thinking about a career change or are in the middle of one, you may recognise this particular kind of despair.

  • The despair of feeling stuck in a hamster wheel and seeing no way out.
  • The despair of being in a fog, not knowing where to go next.
  • The despair of looking for a job in an unforgiving market, with no end in sight.
  • The despair of being 40 or 50 and still not knowing what you want to be when you grow up.

It can feel as though your life has stopped moving.
As though everyone else is progressing, while you’re running hard just to remain in the same place.

Movement beneath the surface

But Oliver’s repeated “Meanwhile” invites a different way of looking at that stuckness: Even when we think we’re stuck, there’s movement.

Just because movement is not visible to us doesn’t mean it isn’t happening.

A career transition can be like that.

On the outside, it may look as though nothing is changing.

  • You may still be in the same job,
  • going to the same meetings to have the same old conversations,
  • sending the same applications,
  • having the same doubts,
  • waking up with the same questions.

But underneath, Oliver tells us:

🌱 The world goes on

—and something is always shifting.

  • An old idea of success may be loosening.
  • Your definition of who you are, and what you want, may be shifting.

This void you find yourself in right now is a fertile void: the space in which new life can finally form.

The chrysalis

Chrysalises have always fascinated me. In fact, they’ve become a metaphor for how I understand career and life transitions:

Transitions are the chrysalis from which new life can form.

As a child, I used to wonder what was happening to the caterpillar inside. After all:

  • It’s just there.
  • It doesn’t move.
  • It doesn’t eat.
  • Is it aware that its body is reorganising itself inside its shell?
  • Is it aware that it’s using stored energy to break down and rebuild much of its caterpillar body into something utterly new?

This biological process is called “metamorphosis” because the transformation is so complete that what emerges is unrecognisable from what came before.

The same can happen during a career or life transition.

That is why the line:

🌱 the world offers itself to your imagination

feels like the poem’s punchline.

Your transition is not about what you already know. It’s about what might be possible, while trusting that something may still be making its way towards you.

When we’re exhausted, disappointed or afraid, we often make decisions only on the evidence in front of us.

  • The job market says no.
    Our experience is too specific or too broad.
    Our age feels like a disadvantage.

Our confidence has been worn down by rejection. And the fog keeps so much out of sight.

But if we allow ourselves to welcome the fog and the void as fertile ground for metamorphosis, the waiting and the apparent lack of movement become more bearable.

And we may become able to consider an alternative view:

☀️ What if I’m not behind, but in the middle of becoming?

Harsh and exciting

The call of the wild geese is

🌱 harsh and exciting.

Harsh—because transformation is rarely easy or comfortable. It’s frustrating, risky, scary and full of uncertainty.

Exciting—because every transition carries the possibility of becoming something new.

Like the caterpillar, we may not yet be able to see what is taking shape. But something is happening inside the apparent stillness of the chrysalis.

📌 So, if you’re feeling stuck in your career or life in general, remember:

the absence of visible movement is not proof that nothing is changing or moving.

You’re standing in the midst of your own fertile void.

So, take heart (and if you can: rejoice), for metamorphosis is in the making.

🦋 Happy Sunday everyone! 🦋

With love,

Dina 🫶🏽

        Resources:

        • Read Mary Oliver’s full poem “Wild Geese” here: https://allpoetry.com/poem/15374223-Wild-geese-by-Mary-J-Oliver
        • This week’s song is an instrumental piece by Philip Glass called METAMORPHOSIS (1988). It’s 33 minutes long, and its repetitive, slowly shifting music evokes the spirit of the poem and this week’s reflections. I’d even encourage you to play it while you’re reading this blog post.

        Career change strategy: Different moves need different approaches

        Career change strategy: Different moves need different approaches

        Not all career changes are equally difficult.
        And not every career move needs the same strategy.

        There’s a difference between moving to:
        1️⃣ Same/similar job, same industry, new employer
        2️⃣ New job, same industry, current employer
        3️⃣ Same job, new industry, new employer
        4️⃣ New job, new industry, new employer

        The bigger the career change, the harder you need to work to create a bridge between what you’ve done and where you want to go. And the more a genuine human connection can matter.

        4 types of strategies for 4 types of career transitions

        ☘️ Here’s how I think about it:

        1️⃣ Same/similar job, same industry, new employer

        Usually the most straightforward move.

        • You have relevant experience,
        • Speak the industry’s language, and
        • Have a proven track record.

        Your challenge is positioning: targeting the right employers and roles, showing relevant achievements, and making your value easy to see.

        2️⃣ New job, same industry, current employer

        Often the most accessible lateral move.

        • You know the company, its stakeholders, and its language.
        • People know you, can recommend you, and can help you understand what the hiring manager needs.
        • You’re already inside the company, making it easier to network, reach out to decision-makers, do an internal rotation, and open doors.

        3️⃣ Same job, new industry, new employer

        The difficulty depends on how transferable your role is.

        • In IT, HR or Finance, core skills may travel more easily (see Category 1)—you still need to explain your motivation for the new industry.
        • Technical and scientific roles may prove to be trickier (see Category 4).

        4️⃣ New job, new industry, new employer

        This is the most demanding move, because you’re asking someone to take a chance on you without direct experience in either the role or the sector.

        This is where your strategy needs to be deliberate, and where creating a genuine human connection matters most:

        • Run mini-experiments to test the direction, gain evidence, and widen your network within the new industry.
        • Build missing competencies through a course, project or further education.
        • Find ways to be seen in action: short-term or pro bono mandates, events, conferences, LinkedIn.
        • Write a motivation letter, even if it’s not required. Make it personal and specific.
        • Send spontaneous applications—an underrated strategy but effective in Switzerland.
        • Humanise your CV. Include a relevant thread from your background, career decisions or meaningful interests. In DACH markets, you may also consider a professional photo.
        • Make a Category 1 move first, then a 2.

        👉🏽 So, if you’re looking for your next step:

        1. Identify the move you’re making
        2. Build the evidence, relationships, and story that match it.
        A successful career transition either reduces the risk someone feels when they consider hiring you OR makes that risk worth taking.

        📌 Which of these four moves are you considering right now?

        📌 What successes or difficulties are you facing?

        With love,

        Dina 🫶🏽

        Career experiment: How I discovered my dream job was not for me

        Career experiment: How I discovered my dream job was not for me

        The best career experiment I ever ran confirmed that my dream job was absolutely not for me.

        For years, I had dreamt of working in either the humanitarian or human rights field, but I did not know enough about either to know whether it was really a good fit for me.

        So, when I left a good job at Novartis because it no longer felt right, I decided to use the opportunity to explore humanitarian work first.

        I looked for a low-risk experiment to test things out and came across a week-long training programme run by an NGO, the Irish Humanitarian Response Network (IHRN), for people interested in humanitarian work.

        It felt like the perfect mini-experiment:

        ✅ Learn what the work is really like
        ✅ Meet others interested in or experienced in the field
        ✅ Connect with tutors and experts
        ✅ Test my interest before making a bigger commitment

        What I did not know was that the course took place in partnership with the Irish Defence Forces in Maynooth.

        ‼️ And on Day 5, we had a simulated war zone on site. ‼️

        We were split into groups of humanitarian workers responding to a crisis in a conflict zone.

        • We dealt with war victims.
        • We spoke to journalists.
        • We met officials who tried to pressure us into taking sides.
        • And, most memorably, we were “kidnapped” at machine-gun point, yelled at, held hostage for what felt like ages, and made to walk barefoot through the freezing cold back to base camp.

        Even though I knew it was a simulation, it was one of the most vivid and terrifying experiences of my life.

        I left that training knowing two things unequivocally:

        1️⃣ I had a much clearer understanding of what this work demands—and even greater respect for the people who do it.

        2️⃣ I reached a crystal-clear decision: this type of work was not for me.

        It was some of the best money I’ve ever spent.

        Not because it gave me a new career direction, but because it prevented me from investing years, energy and identity in a path that was never right for me in the first place.

        This is what I meant last week by the value of mini-experiments.

        They don’t always confirm the dream.

        Sometimes, their greatest value is showing you —early, safely and relatively cheaply—that your dream may need adjusting.

        A small experiment can save you from a big detour

        ☘️ A small experiment can save you from a big detour.

        With love,
        Dina 🫶🏽

        P.S. Next week, I’ll share the next experiment I conducted. 😊

        CV tip: How to write a CV that doesn’t sound like a job description

        CV tip: How to write a CV that doesn’t sound like a job description

        Your CV should not read like a job description.

        If you’re a specialist with a clear target role, relevant experience and a well-written CV–but you’re still not getting interviews–this may be why.

        Most CVs I see describe what someone was responsible for:

        • Managed X
        • Coordinated Y
        • Supported Z
        • Led meetings
        • Prepared presentations

        There’s nothing inherently wrong with that. But to stand out, you want recruiters and hiring managers to understand:

        📌 What difference did you make?

        For example:

        ❌ Managed the preparation of regulatory submission documents.

        To move beyond task-based bullet points, here’s one question that can help:

        📌 So what?

        In other words: Why should anyone care? Why does this matter

        **Let’s take our earlier example & follow that thread**

        🌱 Managed the preparation of regulatory submission documents.

        So what?

        🌱 It was a complex simultaneous submission for two major markets: EU & US.

        So what?

        🌱 Different authorities required different inputs, and the work had to be completed quickly to get ahead of a competitor.

        So what?

        🌱 The submission was delivered on schedule, approved in both markets, and helped make the treatment available to patients.

        ⭐️ Now we have the substance for a stronger bullet ⭐️

        ✅ Led a complex simultaneous regulatory submission for the EU and US markets, coordinating distinct Clinical, Safety and Technical Operations requirements under a time-critical deadline–securing approval in both markets before a competing product launch.

        Obviously, only make claims that are true and that you can substantiate in an interview. Otherwise, you could also say:

        ✅ Led a complex simultaneous regulatory submission for the EU and US markets, coordinating distinct Clinical, Safety and Technical Operations requirements under a time-critical deadline–securing approval in both markets and enabling a timely product launch.

        Cv tip: what difference did you make? so what?

        **So, a useful formula is**

        📌 What you did + context or complexity + outcome / impact

        You may have also noticed that not every achievement needs a percentage or a dramatic “saved X million” conclusion.

        ⭐️ Impact can be measurable or observable ⭐️

        • A process became clearer or faster by X.
        • A risk was identified or reduced by Y.
        • A difficult project moved forward or delivered in X time rather than Y.
        • A stakeholder was persuaded or X patients were reached.

        The point is not to make your role sound grander than it was. It’s to make the value you created visible.

        **So, take one bullet point from your CV today and ask yourself**

        📌 Does this tell the reader what I did–or what changed because I did it?

        So what?

        ⭐️ Specificity is (almost) always your best friend 😊 ! ⭐️

        With love,

        Dina 🫶🏽

        P.S. Next week, I’ll tackle a persistent CV myth: the one-pager.

        P.P.S. Once a week I try to focus on helpful CV tips. Anything you’ve always been curious about? Let me know in the comments and I’ll try to cover them next.

        Resources:

         

        Your weekly poem: The Waiting

        Your weekly poem: The Waiting

        🌿 A poem a day keeps the blues away… 

        THE WAITING—or when your next career chapter is not ready to introduce itself yet 🌿

        🌻

        I was waiting for something
        to arrive. I didn’t know what.
        Something buoyed, something
        sun knocked. I placed my palms
        up, little pads of butter, expecting.
        All day, nothing. Longer than
        that. My hair grew, fell out,
        grew. Outside my window, I felt
        the flick of a tail in September
        wind. A bobcat sauntered across
        the grass before me, the black tip
        of its tail a pencil I’d like to sharpen.
        I immediately hushed, crouched,
        became a crumpled shock of
        joy to see something this wild,
        not myself. (…) Sometimes
        what comes to us, we never called
        for. (…)
        It was as if a bank vault had
        opened and I was just standing
        there, stealing nothing.

        🌻

        — Jane Wong, The Waiting
        Copyright © 2021 by Jane Wong. Originally published in Poem-a-Day by the Academy of American Poets.

        🪴 If you’re thinking about a career change, you may recognise this particular kind of waiting.

        You may be doing all the right things: reflecting, strategising, updating your CV, scanning job ads, having conversations, applying—and still your next step, that ever-elusive job, remains out of sight.

        This “in-between” can be frustrating. It has the awkwardness of standing at a station, ready to leave things behind, but unsure which platform to get to—or whether a train will ever arrive to take you where you want to go.

        But not all movement is visible.

        Wong’s bobcat may have seemed to arrive from nowhere—it didn’t.

        While she had been waiting for something to arrive—a waiting that felt like months and years judging by her hair—the bobcat had been on its journey, only to appear at the exact moment she least expected.

        A close-up picture of a bobcat by Gabriele Brancati. Not all movement is visible.

        Image by Gabriele Brancati on pexels

        We spend much of our lives chasing targets:
        a target education, a target weight, a target job title, a target life.

        But life has its own way of unfolding, too.

        And sometimes, what it offers us is not exactly what we had planned—but something we had not yet imagined. Something that makes us feel as though we’re standing in front of an open bank vault, stealing nothing—because it has been given to us freely.

        Our time has finally come.

        📌 So, if this is you—waiting for something to arrive—remember:

        You don’t have to force the whole next chapter into view today.

        Something is always on the move, even when it feels as though you’re standing still.

         

        🦋 Happy Sunday everyone! 🦋

        With love,

        Dina 🫶🏽

              Resources:

              • Read Wong’s full poem here:  https://poets.org/poem/waiting

              • This week’s song : The Waiting by Tom Petty And The Heartbreakers. Because, yes: sometimes “the waiting is the hardest part”. But “every day also brings another little yard”.

              A spontaneous trip to Geneva: Nostalgia & new beginnings

              A spontaneous trip to Geneva: Nostalgia & new beginnings

              I decided to spend two spontaneous days in Geneva–my very first home in Switzerland, where I spent the first ten of my 34 years here.

              The last time I visited was in 2021, and I hadn’t realised how much I had missed the city and my Geneva friends.

              ☀️ My husband and I went on a little trip down memory lane.

              We visited my old apartment building on Rue Gutenberg.

              Dina at her old apartment building in Geneva.

              Passed by the City Hall where I became a proud Swiss citizen and Genevan 25 years ago, and a few more spots where friends and I used to hang out during my high-school and university years.

              Dina at the Geneva City Hall.

              Of course, we also went to the lake and saw the Jet d’Eau.

              Dina in Geneva at the Jet d'eau

              And I was thrilled to immortalise our mouette trip across the lake with a Japanese tourist dressed as an elephant 🐘😂.

              Dina on the Geneva mouette boat, with a Japanese tourist dressed up as an elephant.

              Despite the last-minute notice, I also managed to meet two long-time, very dear friends whom I’ve known for nearly 30 years. They were my very first university friends in this amazing city.

              ☘️ And then there were the new encounters.

              Like Michel, a 70-something Genevan who had visited Egypt in 1978 and still remembered it with great fondness. We got to speak about the beauty of my home country and hometown, as well as his wife’s beautiful handmade earrings, which she was selling at the one-and-only Plainpalais flea market.

              My dad and I used to visit that market every single Saturday, so it was lovely to be back.

              And of course, I had to buy a pair of earrings from Michel—’cause I clearly don’t have enough. 🙈

              I also had the best mocha maison ☕️ at Corde Coffee in Coutance, thanks to two very entertaining and wonderfully friendly baristas. Not to mention one of the most divine octopus dishes at Medusa, a Greek restaurant near the Nations.

              Picture of an octopus dish at the Medusa restaurant in Geneva.

              🇨🇭I love Geneva’s versatility.

              Its amazingly international crowd, with people from every corner of the world; the ethnic foods; the chaos; and the unmistakable Romandie vibe.

              I didn’t expect to feel so nostalgic being back—but I did.

              🪴 It made me think of how we can feel when we leave a job, a team or a professional chapter that has been part of us for a long time.

              Even when we are ready for what comes next, we may still miss the people, the routines, the version of ourselves and sense of belonging we are leaving behind.

              In fact, I had a session on that exact topic with a client the day before I left for Geneva. Funny, isn’t it? The reason I left Geneva back then was to begin a new professional chapter in Basel.

              Missing something doesn’t have to mean we made the wrong choice. It can simply mean that it mattered…

              For me, it was all the memories I attach to this city: my younger years as a student, and the many firsts I experienced here—including my very first job and apartment.

              🌻 If you’ve never been to Geneva, do visit. It’s a great city.

              And if you do, make sure you stop by Corde and Medusa. You won’t regret it.

              As I write this, my heart is full as I look forward to my next visit.

              With love,
              Dina 🫶🏽

              Resources:

              • Medusa restaurant in Geneva.

              • Corde coffee shop in Geneva.
              • We also enjoyed a lovely lunch at Indian Bites—equally highly recommended.